Blogging with Anxiety; The comments..

Good morning!

I’ve got yet another installment of this anxiety while blogging serie ! It’s all fun and games, but we aren’t actually solely writing and looking at stats … there’s also the communicating with other bloggers/readers part! And I don’t know about you- but it sure gives me some anxiety sometimes.

Other “Blogging with Anxiety” posts; Feeling we’re not enough // Content Wise // Stats // Posts Paranoïa

The first thing that I fear the most is due to blogging in a second language; I’m dreading that somehow I’m not saying what I think i’m saying and that I end up offending of hurting someone … which wouldn’t be what i’d wanted to do at all!

In the same vein, I get comments sometimes that I need some time to process and re-read before commenting; Because I just don’t know what or how to respond to it right away, I need to make sure i’m not too tired/having a headache/etc. to be able to fully grasp what they are saying and to make sure that I reply properly and attack all that they wrote me, you know.

Next- What I caught myself doing alot while commenting on my peer’s posts, is to look at what other comments they got .. and I gotta say I feel kinda cheap when I wanna comment something that’s like, 2 lines while all their others are freaking novels xD opposite also applies; though i’m not sure if that’s good or bad that i’m the one with a novel in a sea of short comments..

At times I kinda wanna comment something, but end up not to because well- what if the blogger see my comment and don’t really feel like it was needed.. or even like, if they think it’s a empty comment, or don’t know what to even say back to me.

Can you relate – are comments giving you slight anxiety aswell?
What else in the blogging/reading world is giving you anxiety feels?