My path to healthier hair; Shaving my head!
Good morning,
As it’s been a whole year since i’ve shaved my hair back in April/May, I’ve been wanting to talk about my journey for quite a while! I just pushed it up for so long because it’s not really in topic with this blog & idk if people are interrested.. BUT I’ve also seen this “trend” of shaving their head on tiktok soo- here it is!
Growing up, I’ve used WAY too many box hair dye; I did reds, purples, black, black with red tips.. bleached them a few times. So it’s fair to say that they’ve been quite damaged in the process π Β I cut them frequently enough, never going shorter then Jaw-leveled; the longest i’ve kept being mid-back.
Picture from April 2019; looking thin & bottom bleached
I box dyed my hair so many times, that to be honest, I haven’t seen my “true” natural hair since I was a child! π Β I’ve started dying them at 12-ish, with some of thoses less permanant 10 washes dyes that I haven’t seen since.
As you can see in the picture, although my hair has probably been washed, they looks like strands of hay.. thin and clearly damaged. I was loosing few handful of hair; specially in the shower, but there was some of my strands of hair EVERYWHERE in the house. Even in places like the dishwasher & microwave. Cutting them would fix it for a few months, but it’d start back.
Covid happened, and I’ve got to a point where I got absolutely overworked and EVERYTHING was irritating me. Most especially the hair on my neck- I just.. couldn’t stand it, it bothered me so much!
So I cut them up to my jaw.. but it was STILL bothering me. It wasn’t short enough. So I cut them again – twice. The last time was actually a mistake- wanting my aunt to trim them at a lower number.. not actually thinking it’d get this short. But omg it felt so freeing!!
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3 July 2020 // 29 July 2020
Never having them this short before, I was shocked at how good it felt – I got many compliments, people asking if I liked them better that way.. but while I didn’t really liked the way it looked, I was hooked on the way it felt. Plus, it’s not like you can see yourself often anyway. In this period, I sadly haven’t taken much pictures.
The problem of hair falling was absolutely GONE; but I had another kind of problem – while my hair was growing back, I had issues where 5-6strands of hair would grow from the same folicule πΒ So i’d ask mother to pluck them out, leaving little holes & scald in my scalp; I had them happening for a few months, with like 10 different spots.. but eventually it stopped.
December 2020 // Felt like I looked like Tokyo in “Casa del papel” on Netflix
When they grew back.. I was amazed by how thick they wereΒ (though the little “overgrowth” shouldve enlightened me), ofcourse clearly much more healthy and retaining volume- something I never had in the past. And I also managed to get this side swept bang that I always dreamt of that I could never manage before !!Β Which I see now how annoying that can be with glasses, specially at work π
Another thing that I was quite stunned, is the color they turned up. Again, remember that I haven’t seen my real natural color since childhood — remembering my chocolate brown with ginger highlights.. and I got like 3 different shades of brown!
Last recent picture, 13th September (I have a thing for work selfies..π€·π½ββοΈ)
Now a year later, I’m still in the “wierder” phase of growing them out that absolutely drives me nuts at time — the part where they’reΒ *almost* Shoulder lenght.. but not quite, While I can use a clip or a small ponytail but all the hair doesn’t fit in quite yet — needing like 10 bobipins to hook them in place π€
Regardless, I’m quite happy of my irritated spontaneous choice of shaving them off; I gets many compliments on them at work now, finally gotten my bang I was dreaming of, got healthy puffy hair.. and no more hair falling!!! I’d get 1-2hair out sometimes, which is quite normal, but not to the extend of handful I had regularly before.
Have you ever shaven your head, or wanted to?
Oh wow! Your hair looks so different. I’ve been tempted to cut all mine off and start again once or twice, but I’m not brave enough. I’ve been dying it since I was in my teens, but stopped during my pregnancy and discovered my natural colour (a mousey grey-brown) but people constantly asked me if I was ill so I soon started dying again π x
Ohno ahaha thatβs not the greatest π pregnancy can also change your hair color!
Id say do it ππΌππΌ it feels so good- most liberating thing ever. Easy to dry, and literally no maintenance needer ever ahaha